Approaching girls is one of the biggest obstacles a guy faces when they see a girl they like. It’s not easy at all. Before you approach a girl, it’s a good idea to get some confidence built up to overcome the anxiety of approaching a girl. When meeting girls, you have to know where you are going to meet them and what you’re going to say.
We can get into this problem by dissecting it one piece at a time.
Courage is a must for approaching girls.
Let’s be honest. It’s not easy for a lot of guys when it comes to talking to girls. Some guys don’t have this problem, making them very lucky. Just approaching a girl can ruin the chances a guy has with a girl.
Ask yourself, what is holding you back from approaching a girl. Could it be your looks that are holding you back? Do you think you will have nothing to say? Figure out the problem and work on improving it.
If you feel that it’s your looks that’s holding you back, then work out more or find something better to wear. If it’s your conversation that is holding you back, then find a stranger to spark a conversation with.
Approaching girls and locating them.
A lot of guys really don’t know where girls are for an ideal conversation. talking with women might be difficult, but you have to understand that half the world’s population is covered with women. The globe is covered with so many women. Finding them won’t be difficult, seeing as they need to buy groceries just like you, eat like you, go to work, etc.
The biggest thing a guy wants to know is where to find these girls that will allow them to approach the girl. Finding that place is key. having something in common, especially the location, will make approaching girls that much easier.
Things you share in common with the girl, whether it’s at a local dance class or hobby group, can go a long way. Questions like, how long have you been coming to this group, will be easier to say.
Actually approaching girls.
You must feel prepared now, right? There she is, across the room. What are you going to do about it?
You need to have something to say. There has to be a reason for you to approach her. Maybe she is wearing something that stands out, or something she is doing that catches your attention?
If you can’t figure anything out, then you aren’t thinking hard enough. If for some reason there is absolutely nothing that stands out about her, memorize some PUA openers and try them out.
Assuming you’ve got something to say to her and you’ve got yourself motivated, there really is no excuse not to make the approach. Get to know her better by talking more and more and get her to reveal her personality. After talking, get her number if she’s the kind of girl you’d like to get to know more.
That’s what you need to do to approach girls. It isn’t that hard after you get a few approaches under your belt. You might even discover that the whole process actually becomes fun and enjoyable. Getting to know someone new is an exciting adventure! That stranger could suddenly be your girlfriend down the road.
Top Secret Seduction 
Posted on June 23, 2010
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